What sex means to me
Sex fills me with confidence.
Looking back to when I was a little un’, I can’t help but be shocked by my opinion of sex and how much it has changed. I always felt that the media, films, television and even music portrayed the whole experience of sex as dirty and cheap. It appeared that sex was about page three girls and one night stands; a tool used by women to keep their men happy. Even the church portrays sex as nothing more than a chore whose sole purpose is reproduction.
But, let me tell you, they’re all wrong! When the industry of sex and the preconceptions are removed, sex and everything down to the alluring kiss is firkin amazing!
Sex to me in the most romantic, intimate, passionate expression of love and trust two people can share! The physical act of sex was never something I craved or longed for, but the physical act is only a small part of the whole experience (the fun part!). It’s the connection and the flow of all the emotions that comes that I fantasise about most. It’s so satisfying on every level. It’s pure ecstasy!
Sex fills me with confidence. For most of us, myself included, the idea of taking our clothes off and exposing ourselves totally to another person is one of the scariest things we can imagine.
But, when you’re caught up in the passion, all those insecurities fade into the background and it is so reassuring to know that the other person sees a deeper beauty in you, as you do them. It’s like a dream to feel the warmth from the bare skin of the person you love.
By: E’claire



