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Your friend is still the same person and probably isn't going to change much.
Article by : SpunOut.ie
If a friend tells you they’re gay, lesbian, transgender or bisexual don’t act as if this is wrong or strange. It’s not and you should accept their sexuality without prejudice.
- Remember that it’s probably really difficult for them to tell you. Give them support and DON’T tell anyone else. It’s up to your friend to decide who knows and who doesn’t.
- It’s not a tasty bit of gossip for you to spread around.
- Don’t presume that because your friend is gay or bisexual, it means they fancy you. Do you fancy everybody of the opposite sex? No? Well, don’t be so bigheaded then!
- Your friend is still the same person and probably isn’t going to change much. Don’t expect them to start dressing differently, shave their heads or jump into orgies at every possible chance.
- Don’t try to push your beliefs on your friend. It’s their life and their sexuality. If you’re a good friend, you’ll support them without judgment, even if you don’t approve of them being gay or bisexual.
- If it’s the first time that someone you know has openly admitted to being gay or bisexual then you might feel uncomfortable or nervous at first. Remember that nothing has changed between you and your friend.
- If your friend is a victim of discrimination or harassment because of their sexuality, always try to stand up for them and offer them your support. You don’t have to be gay to fight for equal rights.
See the help section for supportive information and contacts details of support organisations.
