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Oral fest, not test
Opinion: How to give her GREAT oral sex.
Sex is subjective, and nothing is more subjective than oral sex. Oral sex is a preference; there is no guarantee that every woman will like it. It may come as a surprise to some people, but there are some girls that just are not into it.
Oral sex is not about your pleasure. When it comes to orally turning her on, the focus is on her pleasure. Don't worry, it will be your turn soon and the focus will be on you then. Trust me; her performance will replicate yours when it comes to her returning the favour.
This, let's just call it 'guide,' will focus on girls that do like oral sex however. When you do it right, you will know if she is enjoying it. Remember, this piece is not the Holy Grail of “Oooooohhhh-Yeahs”, but a collection of things you can do that generally will put a big smile on a woman's face. Remember, nothing is as big a turn-on as a man that wants to make a woman come and who really makes an effort to make it happen.
The average aroused vagina is 3-4 inches and the average aroused penis is 5 inches long, so foreplay will make it pleasurable for both of you.
When it comes to oral sex, most men find it confusing and overwhelming. The female vagina is a complex part of the female body, with millions of sensation buds in almost every area, which makes it extremely sensitive. That is a good thing, because, despite its small compact perimeter, you can instantly arouse her by a single touch and lick. Remember, keep eye contact and use protection when things heat up.
O.R.A.L Guide
Observe: Observe her every reaction once you start licking her. Observe her (hopefully heavy) breathing, her sounds or moans and how her whole body moves. Are her hips grinding up and down in a natural rhythm? When a woman is near to climax, her legs will automatically spread apart, as it is the body's natural way to signal that she is ready for a full intercourse. Basically, she wants you to thrust into her. Stop for a few minutes to add suspense; then surprise her by continuing the oral foreplay. Then, enter into her to finish off with a grand finale.
Relax: Ever heard of the expression “Other's behaviours are a reflection of your own”. This is so important in, not just oral sex, but all aspects of sex. If you tense up, so will she. This is not rocket science, this is fun. Have fun experimenting and learning about her body. She does not expect you to be Casanova or McDreamy, she is just happy that you care enough about her pleasure and want to go down on her.
Ask: Oral sex is a preference, so ask her if she would like you to go down there. When you are alone together, whisper into her ear how badly you want to go down on her. I stress the word whisper. Do not shout into her ear when you are in a club or in a busy pub!
Lick: What you should not do, is be Mr. Woodpecker. Do not shoot your tongue in and out of her like a check-in card. It seems robotic and just lazy. Here are just two of the ways you can lick her:
- The Swirl: This is a surprising yet truly satisfying act. Start off licking her slowly; alternative between short and long licks to keep her on her toes. When she is fully aroused, build up the pace as she is close to reaching her climax. That is when 'O' comes in to observe. Then, the millions of other O's will soon follow, as you surprise her with a swirling movement out of nowhere.
- The Slowmo: Go slow at first, like warming the engine before you hit the accelerator. A killer move is to start licking around her clitoris with long rhythmic licks. Set a steady rhythm and only change if she asks you to. No one knows how she wants to come better than herself.
As stated from the start, this is not the holy commandments of female oral sex. Sex is a very personal and enjoyable thing, so do not rush or panic. Everyone is different with their own set of erogenous spots. Take the time to explore her body and what makes her come. As with everything, practice makes perfect. Most importantly, have fun.
By: Anonymous
